Now let’s get to the practical part of this guide. We have already discussed what erogenous zones are and what they do so now it’s time to move on and discuss the very erogenous zones themselves. It should be abundantly clear by now that the basic idea behind stimulating the erogenous zones is to get ladies into a proper state of arousal. Studies have shown that heading straight for a woman’s genitals and starting the sex session there is not exactly very exciting to the woman.  

Ask any sex therapist and he or she will tell you that a woman’s genitals have to be activated by the increased flow of blood triggered by arousal. Just like the male penis, the female genitals must be engorged with blood in order to transmit pleasure. Therefore, men who think that women would really like oral sex, but don’t understand that oral sex doesn’t come immediately after kissing are making a big mistake. If you want to really please your lady, take the longer route instead of choosing the instant action mode. Thorough stimulation of your partner takes longer, but it’s far more rewarding than the instant action.

The list of pleasure zones starts with the head. The face is a very sensitive area and light kisses can be used here to great effect. Let your lips wonder away from her lips and kiss her eyes, cheeks and temples. From the temples, a skilled lover can move on to the ears and nibble on them gently while his hands wonder all over the lady’s body. Whisper something sweet in her ear to let her know you’re enjoying the trip very much. Be careful not to leave a trail of saliva in your wake. That would be a definite turn-off. So kiss and nibble away, but keep your saliva for French kissing and oral sex.

Moving on, kiss her behind the ear lobes and follow the road down her neck. Caress and kiss the sensitive skin of her neck and you’re very likely to start hearing sighs and moans of arousal. These are the best signs that you’re doing the right thing and that the woman knows it and likes it. Run your arms over her shoulders and then follow up with your lips. If she starts to shudder, keep doing it. Shoulders are a bit firmer than the neck so it’s OK to kiss harder, bite lightly and massage the area.

Let your hands roam freely on the area around the waist, starting below the breasts and ending at the top of the pubic hair. Women like to have this area handled by the strong arms of a man. One thing you can do is to put your arms around her waist from behind, while nuzzling her neck and kissing her shoulders. Then start moving your hands around the waist area. Don’t go for the genitals at this point or you’ll spoil everything.

From this point you can move on to the feet, although you must be careful about it. Some women are self conscious about their legs and it’s not a good idea to start caressing without knowing if the lady is actually comfortable with it. Still, some women enjoy this kind of attention and you can go ahead and kiss your way down from her buttocks to the top of the thighs and to the sensitive areas behind her knees. Have the lady lie face down on the bed and work your magic on her legs. Try a bit of massage or bite lightly on her buttocks.

The last stop is, of course the inner part of the thighs. A highly sensitive area, the skin here is packed with nerve endings and ladies will certainly appreciate it if you don’t rush to the genitals and instead tease them by focusing on the inner thighs. Given time and experience, any man has a good chance of making a woman beg for sex just by following the trail of erogenous zones while avoiding direct stimulation of the genitals. Feel free to experiment with these areas and make your own routes. You don’t have to do the whole grand slam every time you have sex. But never overlook the fact that there’s more to a woman than just her sex.